I don't think I have very much of a stance, per se. I do think that the ignorant extremists should contact their local psych wards, but there are some points that the moderates make that cannot be denied.
Well... It's a spectrum to my eyes. The moderate is the belief that the female sex is being treated in an (unjustifiably) unequal way to the male sex, and that something needs to be done about this, be it via diplomacy and peaceful discussion or aggressive campaigning. The more extreme arises when push comes to shove and people become willing to do (or abstain from doing) physical things; things that they believe will bring about the change they desire. The ideology is the same, but less of an attempt at verbal settlement is made.
Then there's the ridiculous, boundless 'femi-nazis' that lose all concept of equilibrium and seem to want nothing more that the universal obliteration of the Y chromosome.